I was watching Oprah Winfrey recently and on that day the talk was on "mean girls". And the summary of it is that: these ladies behaved that way are because they are not happy with their own life and are jealous of the other parties.
That moment it gave me all the answers why my neighbor living in front( just moved in a couple of years) of me is so mean to every thing I do including the type of plants I planted to the type of window panes I used. I feel like being watched 24/7/365. She even knows which potted plant I have moved and who has visited me recently. What is surprising is she has ears a mile long and knows what I and my friends gossip about! She even knows if my sister-in-law did not visit me for awhile. She will start to make-up stories to others that I had quarreled with my sis-in -law. She will make up stories and tell my other friends that I am the one that did this and says that about them. Even my three sons were not spared. Gossips about their studies and the universities they go to.
I was in the dark about her doings towards me until one friend told me about it. Apparently every morning she will wake -up cursing me. I initially told my friend one curse made will manifest into 100 curses reflected back at the person who curse. I classified her as insane and also felt so much hatred towards her.
After watching the show something just hit me to write a book on titled “Mean Women".
I saw all the reasons why she acted in this manner; she is such a sad person. She is dying for romance in her marriage, children that can be obedient and do well in her studies. Friends that can be true to her, beauty and brains as well. She is longing for a warm and lovely home. I am now in the mid of writing the book. She is not the main focus I have included others as well. Its very detail and very bitchy. Writing the book is so timely as I found it to be therapeutic. I have no more hatred but I just felt sorry for her and the rest. I understand better on the reasons behind such behaviors.
My dear friends out there if you had any experiences of your own and would like to write it out and contribute to the book. All contributions will be acknowledged in the book itself. You are all most welcome! I plan to launch the book in June and 10 % of the sales proceed to be given to MAKNA in memory of my only brother who had died of cancer on 10th Jan 2006
